Opposites attract!  We're so different...there's no competition.

I like real life stories, he likes action movies...there's no competition.

I like to shop, he doesn't...there's no competition.

He likes to preach, I don't. ..there's no competition.

I love computers...he doesn't...there's no competition.

I like to drive, he doesn't...there's no competition. (He gets lost)

He likes to talk to people, I'm shy...there's no competition.

When you are opposite in likes and dislikes, there is no competition. We never fight over the last piece of cake.   What a blessing in disguise!  

The secret to maintaining a love and compassion for the work of the Lord and for one another is to be who you are in Christ!  God made you special.  There's not another person in the whole world like you.  Your spouse fell in love with you, not with a pastor's wife.  Don't try to be like someone else. 

When you are you...there is no competition! 

Like Ralph use to say to Alice on the Honeymooners, "Baby, you're the best!"